The level of self loathing and self hatred I lived with was unbearable at times, like having your worst enemy looking over your shoulder waiting for a mistake.

At times the only way I could cope was to punish myself through self harm, actual physical pain.

I believed I was broken, at times less than human.

And, most of the time, of course, nobody knew.

It was only through luck, work, and a 30 year journey of discovery about what had caused all this, learning how to break free, forgiveness of myself and others and so many understandings of how we work as humans,

that I was able to silence those 'disgusting' voices.

And along the way I realised that others were struggling too, in their own unique ways, and that I could use the lessons I had learned on my own journey to discover ways to help them.

I found a way for all the pain I had experienced to mean something, a way for it not to be wasted.

And, at first anyway, a way to feel useful and worthy.

All the work I do now originated from my own journey, backed up by thousands of hours of study, some incredible therapists, coaches and friends, and a decade and a half of working with hundreds of clients.

Everything I write and teach is driven by my desire to help others, to save them from what I experienced.

Every client I see, or package I sell, funds my ability to do this work for a living, not a hobby, and means I am able to be the best I can be.

So understand, when I make you an offer to help you, it's not because I'm a marketer trying to make some money from you, it's because this is my life's work.

This is who I am and what I do.

And I promise, whatever is troubling you right now, I have a perspective that only a few other people have lived through and survived, let alone turned into their greatest asset, and skills that most people wouldn't believe possible.

People call me The Mindfixer and if that sounds like what you might need,

I'm here for you.

Many times clients have said to me:

"I bet you've never met anyone as f***ed up as me"

And my response?

"Oh, yes, I used to know someone..."

So, if that's you, or if you have any kind 'mindset' problem, large or small,

let's talk, shall we?